Not all friction is bad.
AI tools are designed to be frictionless. That’s the problem.
f/riction adds the right kind of pause at the moment a student reaches for AI — helping them own their start, shape the AI session, and keep the work theirs.
The Problem
We spend a full year preparing teenagers to drive. Classes, permits, supervised hours, graduated independence. We do this not to restrict kids from driving, but to provide guidance as they learn to use a powerful technology — because the stakes are real.
With AI, we've handed our kids the keys and hoped for the best. Most parents could teach their kids to drive from the passenger seat because they'd been driving for decades. With AI, parents are learning alongside their kids — and often behind them. It's hard to lead with confidence when you're figuring it out yourself. But when we give our kids access to tools that can think, write, and solve for them — without structured on-ramps or guided practice — the challenge is not just whether students use AI. It is whether they can use it without surrendering the thinking that helps them grow. The result isn't just careless use. It's a quiet cycle of reliance that short-circuits the deliberation, struggle, and growth that real learning requires.
And here's what most adults don't see: kids are worried about this too. They feel guilty about AI use. They fear losing what makes their thinking unique. They dumb down their writing to avoid suspicion. They want guidance — but the only thing many of them have heard is "don't use ChatGPT to cheat."
"I feel guilty about using AI, but I can't keep up without it. No one's really told me how to use it well — just not to cheat."
— High school student, age 15
How It Works
f/riction works at the moment a student reaches for AI — not as a separate lesson, worksheet, or reflection exercise.
Students name the work: an essay, research, studying, a problem set, creative project, coding, or something else. Then they start with what they have: a thesis, notes, draft, assignment, error message, sketch, or even a rough idea.
They shape the AI session by choosing the help they want and the friction they need: brainstorm, explain, sharpen thinking, check direction, flag uncertainty, push back, ask for reasoning, or highlight blind spots.
Before handing work to AI, they set ownership boundaries: what should AI help with, and what parts of the work should stay theirs.
For Families
The browser extension is the first step: a shared structure students can use at the moment they reach for AI. It is not a monitoring tool, a filter, or surveillance. It is a way to practice better AI use before habits harden.
Over time, f/riction may grow into tools that help families talk about AI use, skill-building, and healthy boundaries.
No surveillance. No secrets. Just honest navigation of something new and important.
Private Beta
The Chrome extension is now available for private beta testing. Request access to try it, share feedback, and help shape what comes next.
No spam. Just access instructions and occasional build updates.
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